People's Opinion's, Do They Really Matter?

Do people's opinion really matter? No I don't think it does matter what other ppl think. Seriously if what you feel is right to do who is to say if that is right for you? Not a single person in this world other then you can say whether this is destructive or not.

Who are those ppl who feel the need to stick their nose into anything and everything you are doing and have to give their two cents? I believe they are selfish ppl who only want what is not gonna harm them in some ridiculous way.

For example: My friend's boyfriend that she has never met and has talked to online now for over a year has proposed to her. Now personally knowing this person I believe she would not do anything without thinking it through thoroughly. I know her intentions for doing this and when she asked her "friends" their reaction was less then nice.

When she told me my first thought was...and what's the problem? LOL then she told me that her "friends" cussed her out for wanting to get married to this gentleman that she felt was so right for her. Well she was told all kinds of horrible things and felt very invalidated for this. I don't blame her really. I mean WHO THE HELL ARE YOU FOR TELLING HER SHE'S BEING DESTRUCTIVE etc. Your nobody that's who.

I reassured her that if she had no doubt in her mind about this then there is no one in this world that can tell her what to do or what not to do only herself can make that decision.

Needless to say I think those of you who think giving your two cents about anything and everything just to make yourself feel better in this small world or are afraid that you might lose this person, that she will be too busy with her HAPPY new life to talk to you I say: SUCK IT UP PRINCESS AND GET OVER IT!

If you only have your own best interest in mind when telling a person your opinion and doing so in the wrong way then you don't deserve to say anything. Keep your mouth shut and stand beside your friend no matter what she decides even if in the end it doesn't work out cause that's what friends do.

The Every Day Happenings

Ok today I have no show stopping topics to discuss, as well as I have no new news to share with you all. In fact I have nothing much to say at all which is kind of sad. I found out last night that my husband that is working for an Oilfield Company (service oilwells in Alberta) won't be back home until First Break aka when the ground is unthawed. *cries* so my husband won't return for a few months and honestly I have to tell you all that he's only been gone for a week and I wish he was coming back...yet I know he's not yet. He calls everynight when he's done work which means most days I am already in bed by the time he's done work...great paychecks not so great cause he's doing most days 10-13hr days.

Of course at this rate we will be buying a house by spring time which is good for us. So I guess overall it's good for the family overall. Well as you can all read this blog is just bout my everyday life, which consists of getting up with my two kids, breakfast, playtime, lunch, playtime, naptime, suppertime, story time, and finally bedtime. Not very exciting.

So there you have. Thank you bloggers for being my support while my husband is away as without being able to come on here and read all what ppl have to say and writing about what is happening in my life and what I think I might just go insane. BIG HUG TO ALL OF YOU!!!!

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