OBSESSION WITH PORN?

Here is a question for all you out there: what is the obsession with porn. I mean if you think about it logically all these women who are on there are someone's daughter. Now would you want your daughter on there doing what these women do?

Personally I don't see what the great fascination is with it. I mean I have a little girl and I could not imagine finding out 20yrs down the road that she is doing porn and selling herself in this way. I feel for all those parents out there that have their daughters doing this. Of course for men to be in porn movies it is a completely different thing (double standards what a surprise). For men it is "Wow you are awesome dude, you get to sleep with woman and be in movies and get paid". For woman it is much different.

We look at woman in porn movies as "sluts", "whores", selling their bodies for money. On one hand it is their bodies and they can do what they want with it and it is their own lives they are putting at risk of getting diseases etc. On the other hand, what is the great obsession with men and watching these movies?

I have asked several men regarding this matter (yes I have gotten strange looks and strange debates) and the answer is always the same, "its something else to look at".

Now for a single male to watch porn I can understand why you do it, but for married men why? Explain this to me as I just don't understand it. You have a woman there that you love and perhaps has had a few kids doesn't quite look the way she did before hand with a few stretchmarks etc. This can be quite degrading for this woman as she may feel less attractive as you are busy watching porn and these woman are skinny, most with big tits and will do some impossible things that the average female wouldn't do.

Now some woman try hard to please their husbands but yet these men are drawn to porn like fly to shit. I don't comprehend this matter.

If anyone has any ideas why this may be, as currently all I seem to get is the same answer and it does not satisfy my curiosity of this matter. If I get a proper answer out of a male I might stop asking my male friends this question.

QUIZZZZZ

1) Single or Taken: Taken
2) Your Age: 27
3) Sign: Libra
4) Siblings: 1 brother
5) Hair color: medium brown
6) Eye color: Blue
7) Shoe size: 8
8) Full name as stated on birth certificate: Kathrin Daniela

R e l a t i o n s h i p s:
1. Who is your best friend(s)?: Melanie and Rina
2. Do you have a boyfriend/girlfriend?: married

S t u f f:
1. Where is your favorite place to shop: uhm without much of a choice...wal mart lol only decent place in town
2. Do you have any piercings?:Yes

S p e c i f i c s:
1. Have you ever done drugs?: Yep
2. What kind of shampoo do you use?: Whatever is in my bathroom
3. What are you most scared of?: Spiders
5. Who is the last person that called you?: Hubby
6. Where do you want to get married?: Well if I had to do it over again....who am I kidding I dont wanna get married again...just wanna have a Honeymoon lol
7. How many buddies are online right now?: 2
8. What would you change about yourself?: Outside or inside hmmm well outside I would look like I did when I was 21 (I was hot) and on the inside more patience

H a v e Y o u E v e r:
1. Given anyone a bath?: Yes uhm remember I have kids
2. Smoked?: Yes

3. Bungee jumped?: No
4. Made yourself throw up?: no
5. Skinny dipped?:No

6: Ever been in love?:Yes
7. Lied to get out of trouble?: Yes
8. Pictured your crush naked?: Uhm does my husband have to read this (YES I have pictured him naked but not telling who he is :O maybe its a she)
9. Actually seen your crush naked?: YES
10. Cried when someone died?: Yes
11. Fallen for your best friend?: Yes
12. Been rejected?: Yes but uhm he aint around to tell about it *maniacal laugh*
13. Rejected someone?: Ya I mean otherwise I wouldn't be with my hubby
14. Used someone?: maybe
15. Done something you regret?: Regret is for the weak of heart...and let's face it regretting isn't gonna change what has happened

C u r r e n t:
-Clothes: comfy pants and tshirt
-Hair: ponytail
-Book you're reading: The Rule of Four by Ian Caldwell & Dustin Thomason
-In cd player: Mixed CD
-In dvd player: Pick a Disney movie its probably in there :

L a s t P e r s o n:
-You touched: My son-Hugged: Daughter
-You imed: Rina

A r e Y o u:-Understanding: Yeah I think so-Open-minded: I think so
-Arrogant: No
-Insecure: At times
-Random: Sometimes
-Hungry: No
-Smart: yep
-Moody: YES
-Hard working: I have two kids one has a learning disability and the other is like his father nuff said
-Organized: You bet
-Difficult: oh yes, I can be
-Bored easily: yes
-Obsessed:yes very much so

R a n d o m:
-In the morning I am: tired
-All I need is: family aka hubby and kids
-I dream about: Hubby coming home early

O p p o s i t e S e x:
-What do you notice first: hair
-Last person you danced with: kids we danced to shrek
-Who do you have a crush on: Hubby
-Who has a crush on you: Hubby

D o Y o u E v e r:
-Sit on the internet all night waiting for that someone special to come on?:no I just wait for my hubby to call me soI sit by the phone which happens to be by the computer lol

-Wish you were younger: No
-Cried because someone said something to you?: yes

N u m b e r:
Of times I have had my heart broken:3x
Of hearts I have broken:don't know didn't stick around long enough to find out lol
Of continents I have lived in: 2
Of cds I own: oh 50 or so
Of scars on my body: chicken pox a few other then that not really

F i n a l Q u e s t i o n s:
1. Do you like fillings these out?: no too many questions
2. Gold or silver: silver (despite me wearing a gold diamond and my wedding band that is gold lol
3. What was the last film you saw at the movies?: Movies what are those...big screen no Disney huh unheard of lol

Hope you enjoy this

I am missing my husband. Some of you might remember how I was feeling a little down for the fact that he was away till Spring. Well good news happened and he came home for 6 days which is why I was A.W.O.L and didn't write in my blog.

So my husband (pictured above) came home on Sunday night and he left last night again but this time he is gone for 2 more months. It had only been a month since I last seen him now I have to go twice as long without seeing him.

I didn't want him to leave yesterday when he walked out the door with all his gear, it was one of the hardest things I have had to do.

The first time he left it was easier in a way as we didn't know he was going so nothing was different, he went out to the truck and he was told to pack a bag so he came in and started packing I was so busy running around making sure he had everything I didn't really think about the fact that it could be months before I see him again. Well it sunk in afterwards but it was easier. This time we had the entire time he was here to prepare for it again, doing his laundry packing his bag etc. It was one of the saddest and happiest weeks of my life.

All I can say it that these next two months are gonna be the longest in my life.

On a brighter side....my daughter S is going to Kindergarten this year, like in two weeks. So she has a learning disability with her speech (basically she doesn't wanna talk or pronounce words) so she is funded by the gov't in getting an Aid for school. So Hubby and I while he was here made an appt with the person responsible for this Aid program and she said that it would be best for S to start Kindergarten instead of preschool as the Aid and funding is better and she would be in with kids her own age.

We are thrilled but again Hubby will miss her first day so lots of pics will be taken.