Spooky Girl Contest

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"But mama" the little girl says in an English accent. "Why can't we go to see Grandpa?"

Her mother replies with tears in her eyes, "Emily sweetheart, remember what we talked about last night, Grandpa is up with God now. He's watching over us everyday."

"Mama, can I go see Grandpa where he is?" The small girl trying so hard to understand why she can not see her Grandfather any longer and why he left without saying Goodbye. She clutches her doll that her Grandfather had given her on her 5th birthday with some words of wisdom, "My little Granddaughter always remember, in that doll is your childhood and never be afraid of being a child and living life to the fullest no matter what happens."

Little Emily remembered every word her Grandpa had told her, he was the only father figure in her life and she knew she had a greater love for him then anyone else in this world and being told she could never see him again or talk to him broke her heart. How much she would miss his strong arms cradling her and singing her lullabye's in his rough deep voice. She cherished the days where her mother had to leave for work as then it would just be Grandpa and her. Now, those day's were gone. She only had her mother left to love her and tell her she was beautiful.

"Emily, always remember no matter where I am I will always love you and cherish you, you are my pride and joy." She heard her Grandfather say, tears welled up in her eyes and she held on to her doll as tight as she could swearing never to forget her Grandfather's words to her the day she received her doll.

Flirting Online: How Far Is Too Far

To start this off with I have to show you this website I found. I almost fell over laughing. http://www.onlinedatingschool.com/

Ok so there is harmless flirting and complete shameless flirting where there are other intentions involved other then either being friendly or playing some harmless game to make yourself feel better.

We all have those days where nothing makes us fell much better then a little harmless flirting with someone that says all the right things at the right time. You walk away with your head a little higher (no pun intended), your spirit feels better and you got a certain childlike glow about your face.

Now where this turns into much worse is when you keep going back for more, and you take it further as in making plans to be together or as far as even meeting in secret. Now if you are cybering in someone's box or in email etc that is again GONE TOO FAR!

Now of course if either one of you is single then by all means go for it have a great time with it. If of course you are not...shame on you for letting this friendly flirting go to the next level of shameless flirting and cybering.

This under anyone's category would fall under cheating if you are not single. If you lie about being single (again lying online is a whole other topic) that is still cheating and it is disrespectful to the other party involved as they might not want to be a tramp or hussy, homewrecker etc.

I think a little friendly flirting that you know and the other party know will never go further plus I think you are in fact using the other person to make yourself feel better if you wake up in the morning feeling like shit.

Now I know I will probably get a crap load of shit flying my way from this post and I am ok with that, I never ask ppl to agree with me just hear what I have to say and leave it at that. The world is made with disagreements I am not afraid. Give me your best shot.

CHEATING MEN!

It was brought to my attention through a comment made on my last post from Alice that I had obviously not explored so here I am today exploring that.

The Hussy's and tramps aren't the only one's to blame for cheating, and I totally agree with that the men are just as much at fault, but let's face reality most men couldn't keep their dicks in their pants when they are out with the boy's and in a bad situation where these Hussy's and tramps hang out.

I believe a lot of men recognize the danger areas and stay away from them on purpose as they do not want to be in a bad situation and being a male let themselves not think with the right anatomy.

I know from personal experience that my own husband would not cheat on me as he has told me several times that if you put yourself in a bad situation only bad things will come from it. That is why he stays away from bar's (considering he doesn't drink much), he doesn't go to strip clubs as well DUH! That is your ultimate bad situation, as well as he always tells women he's married as he always has his wedding ring on and is very proud of having his children and I in his life. He tells everyone about us. I literally mean EVERYONE! LOL

If you ever ask a man why he cheated it is simply because he felt more connected to the other person whether he means sexually (no pun intended), or emotionally (was someone that would listen to him). Sometimes in a relationship we forget to listen to our partner so that person whether it be a female or male in the relationship goes off to find that missing piece in their relationship. Now of course if you do not recognize this and do something constructive about it you will fall into the destructive, which could mean doing something that later on you may regret.

Having said the above always think before you act, yes that even goes for men out there that like to forget they have a brain that rides above their waist.

In part I would like to also say that when a person cheats there is always an underlying reason, it was probably not because he wanted to have sex with someone new. It goes much deeper then that. A relationship is give and take and if your always giving or taking then that is not much of a relationship as a relationship is not 50%/50% it is in fact 100%/100% you both have to give and take as much as you can in order to live a balanced life.

So now that I think I have covered all I can without going on forever I would like to say thank you to all those who had great comments on my previous post. Keep them coming folks I always love to read what others have to say in regards to my posts and you never know I might just make a whole blog regarding that. LOL

Ciao ppl and remember your give and take has to be balanced as life is all about balance or karma will kick your ass *giggles*

HUSSY'S AND TRAMPS

Here is a post that most women can relate to. What is it with single women and some married women who just can't accept the fact that a married man is in fact MARRIED!

You see these single women going after married men. Now I understand that men have little or no willpower when confronted with a beautiful charming single young woman. Here is my beef with all this. Do you really want to be known as a homewrecking bitch?

I understand that a married man is very attractive to a single female considering that obviously he's got qualities that women are looking for as he is married. Ok I know I am being very general as some married men are asshole's even though they are in fact married, but that is besides the point. I am looking at the good married men that women as soon as they see that wedding band have to go after. I mean get real ladies do you really know what they wife is capable of?

I personally would probably go off the deep end if I found any female hitting on my man. I believe I have that right to go after her and potentially hurt her. I mean I am by nature a very protective person over what is legally mine. By marriage my husband is legally mine. We have agreed to go with each other and no one else.

It just really ticks me off when I hear about single women going after married men as if there aren't enough available men to go around why do you have to hit on mine?