OBSESSION WITH PORN?
Here is a question for all you out there: what is the obsession with porn. I mean if you think about it logically all these women who are on there are someone's daughter. Now would you want your daughter on there doing what these women do?
Personally I don't see what the great fascination is with it. I mean I have a little girl and I could not imagine finding out 20yrs down the road that she is doing porn and selling herself in this way. I feel for all those parents out there that have their daughters doing this. Of course for men to be in porn movies it is a completely different thing (double standards what a surprise). For men it is "Wow you are awesome dude, you get to sleep with woman and be in movies and get paid". For woman it is much different.
We look at woman in porn movies as "sluts", "whores", selling their bodies for money. On one hand it is their bodies and they can do what they want with it and it is their own lives they are putting at risk of getting diseases etc. On the other hand, what is the great obsession with men and watching these movies?
I have asked several men regarding this matter (yes I have gotten strange looks and strange debates) and the answer is always the same, "its something else to look at".
Now for a single male to watch porn I can understand why you do it, but for married men why? Explain this to me as I just don't understand it. You have a woman there that you love and perhaps has had a few kids doesn't quite look the way she did before hand with a few stretchmarks etc. This can be quite degrading for this woman as she may feel less attractive as you are busy watching porn and these woman are skinny, most with big tits and will do some impossible things that the average female wouldn't do.
Now some woman try hard to please their husbands but yet these men are drawn to porn like fly to shit. I don't comprehend this matter.
If anyone has any ideas why this may be, as currently all I seem to get is the same answer and it does not satisfy my curiosity of this matter. If I get a proper answer out of a male I might stop asking my male friends this question.
3 comments:
cold lake sux! Remember Grand Centre? Now THAT was a town. I think it's gone now...incorporated? Move to Vilna - one time I saw a guy trying to sell his pants for gas.
I think it has to do with gender...Men are biologically programmed to respond to visual sexual stimulation while women are not.Women generally don't buy magazines portraying naked men because sexual stimulus to women is derived more from touch and thought. Seduction with women is mental, which is one reason many women find a man's interest in pornography for self-gratification to be disgusting. Women fantasize and create an entire scenario within their heads. Men look at a picture and concentrate solely on the action.
Uhm Cold Lake is still Grand Centre shows how much u know lol couldn't figure out where you are from but next time I am near a bridge I will be sure to check underneath lol ;)
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